Dotty Scott
Hello everybody. And welcome to Hello Hump Day. We are interviewing Miss Conde Bartlett today, and I’m going to go ahead and read her bio for those of you who don’t know her. Conde is the owner of Divine Momentum and the founder of Manifesting Unlimited Abundance Facebook group, where she helps healers, coaches, and spiritual entrepreneurs manifest an abundant income and make an impact in the world doing what they love. We all want to make an impact. Conde is a modern mystic who was born into a family of people with extraordinary supernatural gifts. Her unique abilities allow her to see what is possible for people and clear what’s been holding them back from manifesting their heart’s desires. Conde is a world renowned intuitive healer, and a channel for the collective. She is a catalyst for change and a strategist for personal and spiritual fulfillment. She facilitates change in minutes, when normally it could not be accomplished in years, if at all. Welcome Conde.

Conde Bartlett
Thank you. I’m glad to be here. Thank you, Dottie for inviting me, and thank you, audience for being here.

Dotty Scott
Hey, Kathy is here with us today. So awesome.

Conde Bartlett
It is awesome.

Dotty Scott
So Conde, I have known you for a very long time when I think you are one of the first people I met when I started my business. What you were doing then is very different from what you’re doing now.

Conde Bartlett
Correct.

Dotty Scott
So I have two really big questions for the first is: How did you start where I met you?

Conde Bartlett
Okay.

Dotty Scott
Then what was your journey like to evolve into what you are now?

Conde Bartlett
Oh, my goodness, I’ll see if I can be really concise and not blather on.

Dotty Scott
We have half an hour. We’re good.

Conde Bartlett
Okay. Let’s see, where did it How did I get here? Well, entrepreneurially speaking, I was influenced by my dad, who was an entrepreneur. He had like a little watch shop, and he fixed watches and jewelry, and I would go there and help him in the summer. I would fix watches and clocks. I take them apart and put them back together. So maybe that’s kind of how this kind of seeing what’s possible thing happened is that I’m able to kind of take that same kind of experience and take things apart and put them back together in a new way that kind of that reinventing sort of thing.

So how did I get here? Well, it was a long journey. I think, let’s see the best way to say this is and, and it’s kind of leaning into this whole fail thing that you’ve put in, in the promotion for this thing. I would say this is one of my favorite stories is that for the longest time, I was born into this family of incredible, extraordinary people my dad could bilocate he give readings to people past present and future with incredible accuracy. My mother, my sister talked telepathically I was healed from epilepsy when I was four years old. And all that being said, I thought my family was normal. You know, it wasn’t until I got to school that I realized this really wasn’t normal, and that other people’s families to these types of like skill sets.

So I really, it wasn’t until I was like 20 that I really probably high school age really before then that I really decided I was going to be normal. That led to several years of being chronically ill, and then I almost lost my life. I spent a night in the ICU and a good solid week in the hospital with plenty of time to think about things, and I realized being normal was killing me.

Dotty Scott
So you were trying to force yourself to be like everybody else.

Conde Bartlett
Well, I was trying to be somebody else. I wasn’t even myself. I didn’t like myself, I didn’t love myself, I wasn’t loving my life. It was a joke. So this was kind of like my rerouting from the Universe. It was like, “Oh, you know, this thing about being normal… maybe it’s time for you to really think about what your purpose is here and maybe start, you know, understanding more about yourself loving yourself a little.”

So while I was laying in that hospital bed, I had plenty of time to think. I’m like, okay, what’s missing? What’s got to change? Number one was, I really want to find a natural way for my body heal, and reclaim my health completely. Right. So that was my number one goal. My first goal was that I lost my connection to the Divine Source, God, Love, whatever you call it, whatever your higher power is, I lost it. I was not connected anymore. I had this idea that I was doing this all alone, life was happening to me, so sad, and I’m in the hospital. So I made those two choices. And when I left the hospital, I went out on a journey, and I started to work with every single practitioner I could find. Find a way to heal. I probably worked with over 100 people, some were just quacks and fakes, and it was awful.

Then I finally found somebody that I really resonated with. At the end of the time working with her, she was like, “I think you probably ought to learn how to do this. Since you’re already in trained with these frequencies to use this type of modality, you should learn how to do this to help your friends and family”, and that sounded fantastic. I’m like, “Yeah, you’re right.” So at the same time, my husband and I, kind of I was on the spiritual journey. We had been visiting this place here in Portland called New Renaissance Bookshop. We had been renting all these videos learning about all these different new types of modalities and all sorts of supernatural things, and epigenetics and mindset, and all sorts of healing things. And so when I went to the website that this lady had given me to sign up for the class, which was in Hollywood, I noticed that they were having like a movie premiere, there was like a conference that they were having. When I brought up the screen for the conference, it actually was an outline, with all the pictures, exactly, of all the videos, we had rented. All the people that we had videos for work in this panel of people that were being presented, and I brought my husband over and I’m like, look at this. He’s like, “I think you’re going.” So yeah, that’s a sign if you’ve ever heard one.

So I went away, I learned how to do this thing: To heal people. It was a certain modality. I came back and I had this voice in my head, it’s still there, and it says, “Get out there Conde. People are waiting for you to help them heal.” So I immediately started my business, this healing practice that I had that was helping people with chronic illness, and put up a shingle, got some really bad brochures, a terrible website that would have made you laugh.

Dotty Scott
I think that’s what you were doing when I met you.

Conde Bartlett
That’s correct. So that’s my, my pre-story to all of that. I went about for probably a good solid, maybe 10 years doing that business and really focusing on people with chronic illness. I started a Facebook group for women with fibromyalgia, and my Facebook group was like, teaching them how to heal self-heal. Teaching them what I knew about healing, and what how I’d help different people heal with different things – incredible stories of just like, spontaneous healing, I shared there. I have 9000 women in that group, 9000 women from all over the world who had fibromyalgia. It was one of those things…this is like another fail for me because I wasn’t listening to my own guidance. I wasn’t listening to my intuition about this. It just felt wrong.

Dotty Scott
What were you listening to?

Conde Bartlett
Pardon?

Dotty Scott
What were you listening to instead?

Conde Bartlett
I was listening to a coach that thought this was a good idea for me. I’m like, “Okay, that’s that makes sense. It makes sense that this would be the next step.”There’s a lot of people that I could help, and so I was like, “Yeah, I can help these people.” But the thing is, I chose a group of people that really didn’t want my help. They didn’t really think they could heal, and so that to me, was kind of, I mean, we could think of that as a fail. Really the definition fail is, you know, that we didn’t accomplish a goal, but thank God, I didn’t accomplish this goal because I wouldn’t be doing what I’m doing now. I’m just like a lot of other things that I used to be an accountant I used to, I trained to be a legal secretary, thank God, I’m not a legal secretary.

Dotty Scott
That would not have matched well with you at all.

Conde Bartlett
No, like you want What? When? What? No. So, so thank God, there was that reroute, I actually had started making a program I had built a membership, to sell to women with fibromyalgia to help them heal, I had all these different wonderful components. And that was kind of like the day that I launched that. You may remember this, because it was sort of a monumental day. It was like a day when both Facebook and Instagram went down for the whole day. Oh, my lord. Remember that day? I was traveling, I was in Hollywood again. on business, and my daughter looked at me and she said, “Why did you do this?”

Dotty Scott
Like, like, You crashed Facebook?

Conde Bartlett
Yes. Then she said, “I can’t take the blame for that.” But um, so luckily, for me, that was that membership didn’t fill up. And I ended up just kind of closing the chapter, I had that group with 9000 women. It was draining me. It didn’t feed my soul. It didn’t make me happy. It didn’t spark joy. It wasn’t, it wasn’t even good experience. And so I finally just said, “This is not what I’m called to do.” So I sat with it, and I was like, “Okay, I’m willing to see things differently. I’m willing to understand what it is I’m really here to do.” What what brings me the most joy was my question. Okay, so I’m writing things down, and what was joy was really working with people who are spiritual entrepreneurs, whose businesses make a huge difference in the world, They’re looking to expand their own spiritual gifts, do their work in the world be paid well, right, and helping them achieve those things. You know, go further go beyond what they thought was possible and manifest even more. That’s what got me excited. That’s what my where my joy was.

I’m like, “Okay,” so I decided I was talking to one of the gals from the fibro group, who was actually helping me – she was one of the admins. They said, either I need to close this group, or I need to find someone else who can take this over. Because this is no longer feeding my soul; it’s a drain; I feel depleted here, so she offered to take it on. She’s actually one of my success stories. She actually has made some huge strides. And she continues to run that group. Then about this time, last year, I started the manifesting unlimited abundance group, and started calling in my tribe of people who are here to make a big difference in the world who may be on a spiritual path, but most certainly are in business, and are, are really wanting more in their lives.

They want to experience happiness on a personal level, they want to experience financial freedom and abundance. They want it they want it all right. We all know, so that’s been a godsend. It’s, it’s been interesting for me, because now I’m listening to my intuition when I get little nudges. About two years ago, I got a nudge. I had a physical office that I had had professionally decorated. I was very attached to it. It was gorgeous, and I got a nudge from spirit that said, “Hey, take pack up all your stuff and move home. Take your business home,” and I’m like, “Okay, I’m not gonna question this. I’m just gonna go with it.” This was before COVID. It was a year before COVID or several months before COVID anyway. So I packed up everything, and I brought my business home. I learned how to do an online business. So I say now to people, “Please listen to your intuition. Please grow your intuition.” Because it’s like the easy button – it’s like your easy button – because you have access to this huge database of information, you could know anything. You could get direction from anything, you could find a solution for anything.

Dotty Scott
How do you get in touch with your own intuition if that’s something you’ve never really done before?

Conde Bartlett
Pardon me?

Dotty Scott
How would you get in touch with your intuition? If that’s something you’ve never really done?

Conde Bartlett
You start by asking questions because everybody has an innate ability to use intuition. Everybody has intuition, they just start using it.

Dotty Scott
So is that kind of like when I say, let me sleep on it?

Conde Bartlett
Possibly, yeah. It’s the thing that comes, you know, when you’re in the shower, and get all the good ideas. That’s intuition.

Dotty Scott
Okay.

Conde Bartlett
It’s what happens when you’re not resisting, and you’re in this kind of state of relaxation. So one of the things I tell people is that abundance is relaxed. If you are manifesting things, and you’re all stressed out, and you’re in a twizzle, you know, and you’re like, “Oh, it’s been this way, it’s got to be purple, it’s got to have yellow polka dots, it’s got to come on Tuesday,” that’s gonna be a problem. It’s not going to manifest the way that you would like it to.

Dotty Scott
So I should tell my husband, I need a spa day every week.

Conde Bartlett
Yes, probably so.

Dotty Scott
Okay.

Conde Bartlett
You deserve it, Dotty.

Dotty Scott
Note to self.

Conde Bartlett
So I think there there is a gift in taking time and being quiet in relaxing. This, you know, having this kind of reinventing yourself, kind of thing, listening to your intuition, but also doing this like in a really kind way. Where you’re compassionate, where you’re giving yourself love, where you’re nurturing yourself, where you’re just in adoration. Where you have the sense of worthiness, and you have a sense of self, and you come from that place, and everything that you give from that place is going to be magnificent. Anything that you can dream of from that place is going to manifest pretty quickly. So did I answer both your questions that I am not sure.

Dotty Scott
Kathy commented that you have such an interesting story, and thank you for sharing.

Conde Bartlett
Oh, you’re welcome. You’re welcome. I have an interesting story, but also the people that I work with also have interesting stories. I think more than anything else, it’s really being able to see things differently. Sometimes that means getting help in order to get clarity about what’s going on.

I when I first started, I was probably like, a couple of years into business, I had a client that came in, and he had just started a business. I said to him, I’m like, “Well what are your revenue goals for your business?” He started to tell me, and then he’s like, “Well, here’s what I’m going to do. I have this much money in savings, so I’m going to keep doing this, that and the other thing until the savings is gone. And then I’ll probably get a loan.” I’m like, “No, no, no, what is your intention for how much money you’re going to bring into your business?” He’s like, “Well, I hadn’t thought of that.”

Dotty Scott
A lot of people haven’t.

Conde Bartlett
Right.

Dotty Scott
So I you know, if you’re listening to this right now, and you don’t have a goal for your revenue, even if it’s $5, right? That’s a problem. So really start thinking about some setting some really clear goals for yourself about what it is. So this person, he had no goal, he was just going to use up his savings, and then he was going to go into debt. That was his plan, and I said, “Well, wait a minute, when was the last time you felt really good about how much money you made?” He’s like, “Well, I probably felt really good when I made about $60,000 a year.” I’m like, “Okay, well, could that be your goal? Because you’ve already done that before? Would it be feasible for you to do that, given your business?” He said, “Sure, and so I heard from him a couple of years ago. He was making like, $250,000 a year, he had hired a staff, and his business just keeps growing. And that’s just one of the stories that I have. I love seeing people make this transformation, but it really starts with your own self concept.

Conde Bartlett
So is that what really kicked him in the butt to get going? it?

Well, there were several things. I mean, I have a very simple process that I take people through, and it really is going into clearing out limiting belief systems. He had a lot of limiting belief systems about money, about what he could do, about how he could do it, about being capable, and really working through releasing those limiting belief systems. He also had suffered a trauma where he and his wife had lost two babies. He had taken a lot of responsibility on for that. He had a lot of guilt and shame about that. When you have these really heavy emotions, that are like traumatic experiences that have happened to you, that you’ve internalized somehow and taken responsibility for. Those can change how you show up in the world, of course. They can change how you receive things, how you give things, and it can block, your really manifesting your heart’s desire, whatever that is.

So we just started working on self-forgiveness, and we started working on limiting beliefs. We just kind of worked through the process. I like things to be really simple and easy for people. I don’t like things to be complicated, I don’t want them to take a long time. I teach people to use different self help tools that are super powerful, but they’ve got fast results, like the EFT tapping stuff, and using them with an essential oil, which makes them even faster. So I like sharing tools with my clients that just have a powerful impact and make that shift from that place of not feeling like they’re enough to feeling like they’re capable or feeling like they’re worthy, and feeling like they can do it. That really lights me up.

I see so many people, especially healers, who just settle for less because they don’t feel like they’re worthy. There’s a bunch of stuff about money being bad. Money’s got a bad rap with spiritual folk. That’s not true. Money is just energy. It’s the meaning we put on things, like the meaning we put on failure, right? It’s just another chance to do something different, maybe even something better.

Dotty Scott
A stepping stone,.

Conde Bartlett
Yeah, thank goodness I’m not a legal secretary somewhere, or an accountant.

Dotty Scott
I would have never met you…

..doing some of these books.

Conde Bartlett
The thing about all those different things, it was great to try those things, and it’s good I didn’t have that knowledge, but it didn’t really bring me joy. It didn’t make me happy. So one of the things that’s really crucial to know is that a lot of people, they have this template, “I’ll be happy when, right?” I’ll be happy when my business launches, or my program launches, or my book sells, or I get this certain amount of clients, or I have the partner that I love, or I have the car or I have the house or I have the motorboat or whatever it is. The thing is to be happy now, to feel good in your own skin now, and then things just start popping, like manifestation starts popping. Then you can see all the possibilities that are available to you were before you might have been blinded by some limiting belief about your own worth, and not feeling like you deserve that thing, so you wouldn’t even see that it was possible for you.

Dotty Scott
Kathy commented that, yes, the inner work is more important than people realize.

Conde Bartlett
It is. It’s just so true. It is and it doesn’t have to be hard is a thing. It doesn’t have to take years, it doesn’t have to take months. It can be simple, it can be fast. Transformation within your life can happen in a short amount of time. We’re talking three to six months or less. We had one client who came to me – he was like a shaman – was like an executive coach, and he came to me and he said, “My guides are telling me, just so you know,” It’s gonna be an interesting conversation with somebody starts with, “My guides are telling me that I’m supposed to coach this person who is a governor, who becomes President of the United States. I know in order to do that I have to work on these five things.”

He had a list. Okay. I like motivated people, you know. He knew what his list was, but that was a fraction of what really was what he had to work on. So he brought the list. He’s like, “So can you help me?” Oh, by the way, he says, “I’d like to make $40,000 a month.” I’m like, “Okay,” I’m checking in. I’m like, “Let me listen for a minute.” “Oh, can we do this?” And I’m hearing a, “Yes, we can do this.” And I’m like, “Okay,” I said, “By the way, what are you making right now?” He’s like, “$3,000 a month.” By the way, he wanted to do it in a month. We met every week for a month. By the end of the month, he was making $38,000.

Dotty Scott
Wow.

Conde Bartlett
And by the next month, he was making $40,000. So, so I mean, I have a belief that anything is possible. I know that to be true because everything’s made up of energy, right? Everything is part of this quantum field that we’re in. So everything is changeable.

Dotty Scott
So if you’re stuck, you can change it.

Conde Bartlett
You can, yeah.

Dotty Scott
That’s important for people to realize, because a lot of people get stuck in one thing or another. They just feel like that’s it for them. They just got to figure out how to manage it.

Conde Bartlett
Yeah, but no, no I’m like don’t manage it. I’m like, climb over the seat, get in the driver’s seat, and drive the car. Decide where you’re going to go. Look at a map, maybe make some choices, but start leading your life. You make the choice. This is not a passive thing. Life is not passive. So why not choose something you’d really love and aim at that, rather than something you’re going to settle for, or something you can figure out on a spreadsheet. Pick something that would make you jump out of bed in the morning, that you’d be that excited to live that life to be that person to do those things. Then set your intention on that and just say. “I’m willing to see this differently, I’m willing to change, I’m willing to do what’s necessary. I’m willing to stay in alignment, I’m willing to master my emotions, and not let them control me anymore. willing to let go of my past. I’m willing to grow, I’m willing to expand, I’m willing to see what’s possible for my life, and I’m willing to be of service to other people. And I’m willing to change, even if that means changing my identity to become the best version of myself.”

Dotty Scott
That’s exciting! So you mentioned willingness to change or get in control of your emotions.

Conde Bartlett
Yeah.

Dotty Scott
Do you want to mention your free ebook that will be available in the group?

Unknown Speaker
I do. Yes, I wrote an ebook that is basically the guide to using EFT tapping with essential oils to release things that don’t feel good, emotions that a lot of us have – a lot of unresolved emotions. It’s just because we don’t know what to do with them. Other than stuff them. If you’re a stuffer, I love you. I used to be a stuffer, I was a good one. That was part of my chronic illness. I don’t recommend it. So I what I tell my clients is, it’s a three step process: It starts with an awareness that you don’t feel good. So it’s like just being aware in a very loving way that you’re not feeling a good emotion, right? And awareness, and then accept it. “Okay, I feel angry, or I feel guilty or I feel ashamed or I feel bad.” Maybe you don’t even know what it feels like or what the emotion is, but you know, you feel bad, right?

Unknown Speaker
Then you start doing some tapping. You just tell the story about why you’re feeling bad, and you just do the tapping. Or you just say, “I want to feel better,”, and you just do the tapping, you do an essential oil, you do the tapping. It’s super easy. It’s so simple. Kids can do it. What’s that?

Dotty Scott
Wild orange.

Conde Bartlett
Wild orange. Yes. So it’s super easy to learn. There’s no wrong way to do it, and it’s like incredibly powerful. In fact, it’s the fastest way to rewire your brain for success and happiness and release negative stuff from your past memories, trauma; they use it for PTSD, for weight loss, for lowering your lowering stress and anxiety. So

Dotty Scott
Awesome. You’re giving that away free? There is a link in the Business Divas Facebook group.

Conde Bartlett
Yay!

Dotty Scott
We will also put a link in the comments after this video is done. We’re just about out of time. So was there any message you wanted to leave with? Or are we good?

Conde Bartlett
I guess I would like to let people know that they have more power than they think they do, and to just start making choices about how you’d like your life to be. Hopefully those are choices that include your happiness.

Dotty Scott
Yes!

Conde Bartlett
Thank you for having me, Dottie.

Dotty Scott
Thank you so much for sharing and being so open Conde. Hopefully you have touched something in everybody that listens to this. I’m so looking forward to seeing and reading the comments after people have listened, so thank you so much. Next week we have Dr. Teresa Pantanella. She is a Facebook Instagram marketing expert. We’re going to learn her travels from being a doctor to what she’s doing now. Thank you so much, everybody. Have a great week and hopefully you are halfway to your goal this week. Talk to you later. Bye bye bye

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